Is He the Right Guy?

When facing an unplanned pregnancy, many women begin asking themselves, “Is he the right guy?” It’s a question that often surfaces in moments of uncertainty, especially when emotions run high and the future feels unclear. While we’re not relationship experts, we’ve spoken with many women who share this same concern, and based on what relationship professionals often emphasize, we want to share a few key things to consider when thinking about whether a partner is truly supportive and ready to walk with you through this season.

Does He Take Responsibility When Life Gets Complicated?

Life’s challenges often reveal who someone truly is. Think about the last difficult moment in your relationship. Did he stay and offer support, or did he pull away? Does he listen when you share your feelings, or does he shut down or shift blame? A caring partner listens and responds with patience and empathy.

If you’re feeling unsure about how to handle your situation, you don’t have to face it alone. At Problem Pregnancy Center, you can talk with someone who understands what you’re experiencing. Our team provides confidential options counseling, pregnancy tests, and limited ultrasounds, all at no cost, to help you take the next step with confidence and support.

Is He Ready for Real-Life Commitments?

Responsibility shows through actions, not talk. Think about how your partner handles commitments. Does he follow through? Does he take care of his work, finances, and personal promises? Even small things, like being on time or keeping his word, reveal how he’ll handle larger responsibilities. Addressing life’s challenges together is important when walking through an unplanned pregnancy. 

Does He Respect You, Your Body, and Your Decisions?

Respect is shown through actions, not words. Notice how he responds when you share your thoughts or set boundaries. Does he listen and show understanding, or does he ignore your feelings and push his own way? A respectful partner values your body, your emotions, and your right to make decisions about your life.

If you are unsure whether that respect exists, look for patterns instead of promises. Pay attention to how you feel after difficult conversations and whether his actions match his words. Talk with someone you trust who can help you think clearly.

If you ever feel pressured or uncertain, Problem Pregnancy Center offers a private and supportive place to talk. Our staff can help you sort through your thoughts and understand your pregnancy options clearly and confidently.

Schedule an Appointment

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and wondering whether he is the right guy, it can be helpful to speak with someone experienced in this area. Talking with a professional who understands the emotions and challenges that come with this situation can bring a sense of calm and perspective that’s hard to find on your own.

At Problem Pregnancy Center, our trained staff provides confidential support to help you process your emotions and understand your options. We offer free pregnancy tests, limited ultrasounds, and private options counseling in a safe and compassionate environment. Taking this step can help you feel supported and confident as you consider what comes next.