Finding out you’re pregnant can bring a wave of emotions, and if you’re unsure about your relationship, those feelings can be even more overwhelming. Maybe you already had doubts about the relationship, or perhaps the pregnancy made you realize things you hadn’t noticed before. If you’re feeling unsure and considering abortion, it’s important to take a step back and get the right information before making any decisions.
At Problem Pregnancy Center, we understand that relationships are complicated, and an unplanned pregnancy can make things even harder. That’s why we offer free ultrasounds, pregnancy tests, and options counseling so you can get the facts and think through your next steps with clarity.
Is He the Right Person to Go Through This With?
Pregnancy often reveals things about a relationship that may have been easy to overlook before. If you’re feeling uneasy about your partner now, it’s worth taking a deeper look at why.
Some women find that pregnancy brings them closer to their partner, but for others, it reveals differences that can’t be ignored. You might be asking yourself:
- Does he show support, or does he avoid difficult conversations?
- Is he pushing me toward a decision that benefits him without considering my feelings?
- Has this pregnancy made me realize problems in our relationship that I ignored before?
- Can I see a future with him, or does the thought of raising a child together make me feel trapped?
You don’t have to rush into making any decisions based on his reaction or absence. There are resources available to help you process this and understand your options.
What if I Don’t Want to Be with Him?
An unplanned pregnancy can change the way you see your relationship. It may make you question whether staying with him is the right choice for your future. If the relationship was already unstable, or if you’re realizing that he isn’t someone you can trust or depend on, it’s understandable to feel unsure about what to do next.
While he may be part of this pregnancy, you can build a life that isn’t dictated by his actions, decisions, or presence.
If you’re struggling with what to do next, consider asking yourself:
- If I weren’t pregnant, would I still want to be with him?
- Am I feeling pressured to stay or make a decision I’m not comfortable with?
- What kind of future do I want for myself, and does he fit into that picture?
This pregnancy is part of your story, but it does not mean you have to settle for a relationship that isn’t healthy or right for you.
At Problem Pregnancy Center, we understand the weight of this decision. That’s why we offer a safe, confidential place where you can talk about your situation, ask questions, and explore your options without judgment. Your next steps matter, and we’re here to walk through them with you.
What If I’m Unsure About Having His Child?
Pregnancy can feel even more overwhelming when the father isn’t someone you trust, respect, or want in your future. You may be wondering what this means for you, how to move forward, and what choices you actually have. The important thing to remember is that this situation does not define you.
You have options. Some women choose to raise their children independently, while others lean on family or community support. Others choose not to parent. You don’t have to make a decision today, but taking the time to learn about your available options can help you feel more in control of your future.
Considering Abortion? What to Do Next
If you’re questioning your relationship and considering abortion, it’s important to pause and ask yourself a few key questions:
- How far along am I? (A free ultrasound can help you determine this)
- What are the potential physical and emotional impacts of abortion? (Learning about the risks and long-term effects is important)
- Am I making this decision because I feel pressured? (Feeling uncertain is normal, but no one should push you into a choice that doesn’t feel right)
You may be feeling a lot of pressure right now, whether from your partner, family, or even just from the situation itself.
Before taking any steps, make sure you have all the information you need. At Problem Pregnancy Center, we offer free ultrasounds, pregnancy tests, and options counseling to help you think through your situation with clarity. No matter what you decide, knowing your options first is crucial.
